love is not just about the 2 of u

A long long time ago, i thought if 2 people love each other, thats enough for them to be together. What an innocent thought! Now that i am more than a quarter of a century old, i realised there is so many other factors determining love. Certain things are beyond one's control.

I know it hurts, especially when the love is still there but you know its impossible to be together. When love is still here, but you cannot see a future together with him. I wont say things like "dun be sad, cheer up, its okay, a better one will come" cos i know it HURTS LIKE HELL! The process of recuperating is difficult. What i know is there is a time to cry your heart out and mellow in your saddness. There is a time to make yourself feel your whole world is crashing down. But once you have done all that, its time to stand up and face the world again. Life is a process of falling and picking yourself up. That's when you gain life experiences. Im sure you can do it. One year down the road, you will look back and say its all in the past, its wasnt that painful afterall.