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Action may not always bring happiness; but there is no happiness without action. Benjamin Disraeli

Sunday, August 28, 2005


Friend.. i know how you feel, i know what you are going through. Its hard right now, its damn difficult to let go. I know, i know everything. I guess we belong to the same kind, not the type to let go easily, not the type to brush things off with a smile.

Why are man all the same?? Arent they supposed to be the brave one? Arent they supposed to be protective over their other half? Arent they supposed to stand up for what they want?? How come they seemed to be the weakest when it comes to relationship? Why do they choose to escape? Why do they choose to succumb to difficulties?

Friend.. he has already made his choice. This time, there isnt any third party unless you consider his mum as one. Since he prefer to live in under the wings of his mum, there isnt much you can do. I always thought these types of things dont belong to the modern age now. The rich must always marry someone of a prestigous background? Hey... come one lah.. its not as if your family is that bloody rich!! Anyway, dont you have your own stand? Are you really still a mama's boy? If you dont have the right to decide whom you want to marry then dont go around dating people and ending up hurting them.

Getting angrier by the second as i typed these. OKAY... those of you who may be blurred by now. My friend actually got together with a guy whose family background is considered well-off. This guy is working in his mum's company right after he finished his secondary education. My friend with a honours degree in English fell in love with him but because of his stuck up mum, there were several hiccups in their relationships. My friend's dad worked in the same company as her bf's company --- (getting complicated). Well, recently, her dad quitted because of some work issues and it seemed that my fren's bf thought her dad was being difficult. What the hack!

Anyway, he suggested a break up recently cos he feels his mum wont agree to their relationship. Well, he just feared that his financial resources will be cut off. Though he suggested a break up, he still asked if he could call my fren, if he could still ask her out... i mean... hey hey hey... what do you really want??? A part time khaki to accompany you when you are bored???

Why are guys such jerks? Guys out there... please dont think that we gals are really easily bullied. We may be emotional, we may be fall in love easily, we may be easily pleased but then it doesnt mean we will be tricked by you guys all the time. We gals are the stronger party in relationships. We can get up on our feet and face the world again. So dear friend, its hard right now, but things will only look better tomorrow. The sun will still rise and there will be pretty rainbow after the storm.

4 Comments:

  • At 9:10 AM, Blogger sologremlin said…

    Ya, Hate those heart-breakers!!
    People get together not just for a one-time affair or comfort, but for a life-time COMMITMENT!!
    If that chap doesn't have the guts to stand up for her, he's not worthy of her!!

    But gal, don't you realise we hardly see rainbow nowdays...

     
  • At 12:35 PM, Blogger Slacker said…

    liew... dun see rainbow doesn mean its not there ma... arrgghh.. ahahah..

    so free now to read my blog...

     
  • At 1:54 PM, Blogger whysohappy said…

    Yeah lor gal, we're vulnerable yet strong!! I gotta gif u a pat on the shoulder too! I tink you've been very strong and brave...

     
  • At 10:21 AM, Blogger Slacker said…

    HAHHA.. thanks fish! lets give all the gals a pat on their back!!

    GAL POWER!

     

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